The difficult coworker. The difficult client.
Usually it's a difficult conversation that hasn't happened yet.
Keynotes and workshops that give your people the exact words for the conversations they keep avoiding.
78%
of workforce professionals polled at the Illinois Workforce Summit said communication and generational differences had cost them time, trust, or a relationship at work.
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Why teams book me
Most communication training is either too soft to be useful or too generic to be memorable. You've sat through it. And it didn't translate into your day to day.
What I do instead is give people the actual language — specific phrases, specific frameworks, specific scripts — to handle the conversations they've been avoiding. How to give feedback that lands. How to ask for what you need without apologizing for it. How to write an email that gets answered instead of forwarded with a question mark.
I've spent my career in both corporate America and as a business owner, which means I've been on both sides of the conversation your team is currently struggling through. And it's costing you time, money, morale, collaboration, and productivity.
Sessions are practical, direct, and built to be used the next day.
This isn't compliance training. It's communication training: how to stay curious, keep a conversation open, and help two colleagues who disagree actually hear each other.
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Signature talks
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Four generations, one workplace, and a lot of assumptions nobody has said out loud. This session breaks down where cross-generational friction actually comes from — not personality, but mismatched definitions of urgency, feedback, availability, and respect — and gives teams shared language to close the gap.
Your audience leaves with: a vocabulary check for the four words that cause the most damage, a framework for surfacing unspoken expectations, and scripts for the conversation they've been avoiding.
Best for: conferences, all-staff sessions, leadership retreats
Formats: 45–60 min keynote · 90 min interactive · half-day workshop
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73% of business is done via email communication and yet professionals aren’t taught how to communicate effectively in the inbox. Your team's email habits reveal more about your culture than anything. This session covers what people actually read, why "just following up" is doing damage, and how to write messages that get responses instead of resentment.
Your audience leaves with: a template library, an opener bank, and a rule for what should never have been an email.
Best for: hybrid and distributed teams, professional development days
Formats: 45–60 min keynote · 90 min interactive
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Feedback, pushback, boundaries, bad news. Most professionals avoid these until avoidance becomes the bigger problem. This session gives people a repeatable structure for saying the difficult thing clearly and early enough to matter.
Your audience leaves with: a conversation-prep framework, language for disagreeing with your boss, and permission to stop over-apologizing.
Best for: managers, emerging leaders, women's leadership programming
Formats: 60 min keynote · half-day workshop
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For audiences of individual contributors and early-career professionals: how to name your value, advocate for it out loud, and set boundaries that hold. Built from my course of the same name.
Your audience leaves with: a personal value inventory, negotiation language, and a boundary script that doesn't burn the relationship.
Best for: ERGs, women's conferences, early-career and career-transition audiences
Formats: 45–60 min keynote · 90 min interactive
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For councils, ERGs, and leadership teams ready to move from education and exposure to real dialogue. Built from the conversations already happening inside your organization, including the moments when the initiative itself gets questioned. Participants see facilitation modeled, practice it themselves, then decide how they'll bring it back to their teams.
Your audience leaves with: confidence facilitating sensitive conversations among peers, a way to respond with curiosity instead of defensiveness, and a concrete plan for applying it through mentoring, team conversations, and future programming.
Best for: D&I councils, ERG leaders, law firms and professional services
Formats: two-part engagement (45–60 min discovery conversation · 60 min facilitated practice seminar)
Every session gets customized to your audience before I show up.
If what you need is close to one of these but not quite it, say so on the inquiry form — that's usually where the best sessions come from.
How it works
Discover. Expertly lead civil-facilitated discussions to uncover what your people are actually dealing with on a daily basis. I facilitate the way I'll later teach them to, so the session doubles as a live demonstration.
Practice. A structured session built entirely from what surfaced in discovery. Rehearsal, not lecture.
Apply. Everyone leaves with custom resources, printed and shared digitally via QR code, and a plan for using them the next day.
Session formats
Keynote (45–60 minutes)
Interactive breakout (60–90 minutes)
Half-day workshop
Multi-session training series
Virtual and hybrid delivery
Two-part discovery + practice engagement
What's included
Discovery conversation that shapes every scenario around your team's real conversations
Custom examples drawn from your industry
Custom takeaway resources for each participant, printed and shared digitally via QR code
Post-session resource list
[NEEDS INPUT: follow-up Q&A, recording rights, leadership debrief?]
Travel: Based in Chicago. Available nationally and virtually.
Rates: Fees vary by format, audience size, and location — request the speaker kit for details.
Recent engagements
Illinois Workforce Summit – Keynote
Rockford Pow(H)er Conference – Keynote
The Diversity Movement – Partnership
Chicago-based law firm – Training for firm leadership
Chicago Executives Club – Half-day workshop for members
Chicagoland Chamber of Commerce – Workshop
Midwest trial law firm – Training for firm leadership
Northwestern University – Guest Lecturer
Big I NY, CT, MN – Keynote Speaker
Annexstad Family Foundation – Communication Consulting
Good fits
Conferences and professional association events
Workforce development, CTE, and adult education organizations
Corporate learning and development teams
D&I councils, employee resource groups, and DEI programming
Leadership retreats and management offsites
Higher education career services and student affairs
Let's talk about solving your communication challenges
Tell me who's in the room and what you need them to walk out with. First conversation is free, and if I'm not the right fit I'll say so.

